Schindlers Liste
Schindler - The Aftermath
After the war, the Schindler Jew Murray Pantirer, emigrating to the
United States in 1949, set up a construction firm with his friend Abraham
Zuckerman. From the beginning, they knew they had to find a way to
remember their protector. "After the war he couldn't find himself,"
said Pantirer. "He was too big of a man to start over."
"When we started the business - we came in 1949, we incorporated in
1950 - in our first subdivision in South Plainfield, N.J., the first thing
we did was put his name on a street, Schindler Drive."
Their greatly differing complexes have one thing in common. Each has a
Schindler Street, a Schindler Drive or a Schindler Way, named for Oskar
Schindler. As a mark of their gratitude, Zuckerman and Pantirer have by
now dedicated 25 streets in New Jersey to his memory. Planning authorities
often queried their choice of names, they say, but none objected when they
made known the reasons for their requests.
Zuckerman and Pantirer's devotion didn't stop with street naming. From
1957 until he died in 1974, the two helped Schindler financially as well
with money and air tickets, sponsoring his trips to America, where they
would buy him clothes and shoes.
Pantirer's son, Larry, met Schindler on several occasions and remains in
awe of the person who saved his father's life. "He still had charm
and personality," recalled the younger Pantirer. "You could see
the way he carried himself, even as an old man."
Pantirer not only assisted Schindler but also contributed to the
construction of various Jewish and Holocaust museums, and founded, in
Schindler's name, a bursary for Hebraic studies in Jerusalem, again with
Zuckerman.
For Abraham Zuckerman's daughter, Ruth Katz, that history was a living
history. She remembers Oskar Schindler, "Uncle Oskar", coming to
visit when she was a child and staying at her home, where she would talk
to him in Yiddish while he would answer in German. "He would always
pat the back of my head," she says. "He loved children; he would
always call us 'kinder, kinder.'"
Katz says though she grew up as a child of Holocaust survivors, in her
house there was no sadness and there were no horror stories. "Everything
was music, happiness, they never talked about the bad things. And then the
movie comes out, and I say to myself, 'My God! This is what they went
through! This man really did save their lives.' When I tell people now
that my father was a Schindler Jew, they can't believe it, they're in awe:
'Your father was really saved by Schindler?'
"The stories were always told to us when we were little, how he saved
them, and what he did. But when you're a kid, you think they're stories.
Some people's parents put their kids on their lap and told them bedtime
stories; my father put us on his lap and told us how wonderful this man
was to him.
"I remember the day Oskar Schindler died, I was a freshman in college
in my dorm. It was one of the saddest days, because I had never really
experienced any sadness with my parents. I had never seen my father mourn
anyone, because he didn't have anyone to mourn. And he really mourned him.
It was a really really traumatic time for him. They were really sad, they
had a loss that they hadn't experienced since the war."
The primary goal of Pantirer and Zuckerman has been to express their
everlasting gratitude to the man who saved them both from certain death.
Through all the years, and all the conversations they had when they would
get together in America, Europe and Israel, the big question always
remained: Why? What prompted Schindler to act as he did, at tremendous
risk to himself?
Pantirer thinks he heard the answer. "He came to my house once, and I
put a bottle of cognac in front of him, and he finished it in one sitting.
When his eyes were flickering - he wasn't drunk - I said this is the time
to ask him the question 'why'.
"And his answer was, 'I was a Nazi, and I believed that the Germans
were doing wrong ... when they started killing innocent people - and it
didn't mean anything to me that they were Jewish, to me they were just
human beings, menschen - I decided I'm going to work against them and I'm
going to save as many as I can.' And I think that he told the truth,
because that's the way he worked."
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